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Hey girls! A little help? What can I do?

I've been friends with Mandy for 12 years. We met when I was a junior and she a freshman in college. We hated each other at first but became best buds not too long after. Anyway, we moved in together right after she graduated and have shared an apartment since. She went to NYC (we live in Atlanta) for training w/ her job and stayed 8 weeks. She just got back on Sunday. Anyway, when she got back she surprised me by bringing back some guy she met up there and he’s already proposed! She wants to move there and work out of that branch of her company to be with him. While she was gone I missed her so much and realized it was because I love her. I’ve never been one to commit to a relationship. I’ve just sleep w/ a lot of people… I’m done with that though.. I just want her. Well she’s supposed to move at the end of the month and I really don’t want her to. I want to show her that I’m the right person for her. Every time she has described her perfect guy she would describe me to a T except for the man-whore part.. We know everything about each other. All our favorites and secrets we’ve never told anyone else.. How can I make her fall in love with me without making it obvious? I don’t want to come right out and tell her. That wouldn’t be fair to her. How can I do it subtly? But not too subtle because I only have 2 weeks!!! Help!!!

Public Comments

1. your just going to have to tell her or risk losing her because the longer you wait the worse it is
2. you need to tell her how you feel, an soon! no 1 could love her more than her best friend and if she's a typical female she will know this. have you ever had any kind of passionate times with her? maybe she feels the same and has just never said anything. you've got nothing to loose she's going anyway so you've got a good chance that she'll stay with you, 50/50 good look hope it all goes well x
3. This video will motivate you to not keep your feelings to yourself... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sjcvasr-6o0
4. You just got to tell her now or kick yourself in the ass later thinking of what woulda been!
5. :O i honestly did not expect that from a guy. you HAVE to tell her. your life sounds like a movie - maid of honour .. except its obviously different - sorry ): you have got to tell her .. dont drown her in your love, but tell her how you feel. What if shes getting married thinking that YOUR not interested in her?! Take that chance, you can't live your life wondering "what if.." i think its amazing how you've changed your "man whore" ways and not just because of her. i know its only two weeks, but show her how muched youve changed - do all the things she says she loves about a guy but exagerate it - in a not so obvious (but enough for her to recognise) way - she'll notice it. If her new guy really IS all that she loves about a guy, then maybe you should start letting go. But ONLY once you've told her how you felt. You have to ask her how she feels, i cant stress it enough. you'll regret it if you dont ): and it'd be a waste if it turns out she loves you just as much. I really hope you tell her, cos its SO necessary! Good luck and i genuinely hope it works out for the best. :))