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Girlfriend got a job and I don't see her as much?

I have completed 1 year of college and my girlfriend just graduated high school this summer and we hang out sooooo much. She really wants to go to college but currently has no money so decided to take the first semester off and against my wishes get a job. Now that she has one I don't get to see her quite as much and it's really pissing me off. Why is she trying to cut me out of her life?

Public Comments

1. because you don't have enough buttsex with her...
2. Maybe she's just busy?
3. It's going to be hard to find a college age girl to sit at home and wait for you every single day. People need to do something with their lives.
4. Welcome to the real world son. not that she's trying it's just the way it is, sounds as if she has her priority's in order if you ask me, your cute but...
5. She's not exactly cutting you out of her life, I feel the same way though because me boyfriend plays sports for almost half the year so during that time we see each other less. Sometimes I hate the fact that he plays sports, and I imagine you feel the same about you girlfriend having a job. You just have to remember that ( I know this will be hard to hear, it was for me) that her life doesn't revolve around you, and it sounds like by her taking that job she will have a better future, and wouldn't you want that for the person you love?
6. I dont think shes trying to cut u out of your life. Both of you have your own life. Sometimes u cant be attached at the hip. Believe me, I know it sucks that u don't see each other that much. My bf is always workin but i know he cant help it, he has to work. And i love him and we make it work.
7. First of all, she is not your property, so she cannot take a job "against your wishes". Secondly, just because she took a job, and has less time for you, does not mean that she is "trying to cut you out". I feel that your ANGER over her decreased availability is misplaced, and that you should use this new-found extra time to take up a hobby that will enrich your life... instead of grumbling about how your girlfriend has a job. Maybe, if her company is important enough that you're ANGRY with her for not being around, you two should schedule time for each other. I would suggest that she find a more mature boyfriend, however.